Despite moving forward with their divorce, Ben Affleck has been rekindling a flirtation with Jennifer Lopez. An insider shared that Affleck’s friends and family, including ex-wife Jennifer Garner, are concerned the actor may be falling back into unhealthy patterns, likening his behaviour to that of a “love addict” following his sobriety.
Ben Affleck giving Jennifer Lopez mixed signals amid divorce
The source revealed to In Touch that, “Ben has an addictive personality, and many believe that now that he’s sober. He’s turned to seeking thrills through romantic entanglements.” Also added, “The back-and-forth with J. Lo seems to give him a buzz, though he insists he’s only looking for some lighthearted fun.”
Garner is particularly worried about the situation. “She thinks it’s a terrible idea,” the insider stated. “Not only is he potentially confusing J. Lo, but it’s also sending mixed signals to their kids, which isn’t healthy. This is setting everyone up for an emotional roller-coaster. It appears he’s slipping back into a toxic pattern, which ultimately won’t benefit anyone.”
The insider added that the chances of Affleck and Lopez restoring their relationship are slim and reiterated that “Ben is still saying he wants a divorce.” The source advised regarding the 52-year-old actor, “It seems self-destructive for him to pursue this path, and people around him are urging him to regain focus and act more intentionally rather than just following his impulses.”
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck
While there is still a palpable physical attraction between them, conflicts remain and could lead to increasing resentment. A separate insider told In Touch that Lopez is harbouring significant resentment toward Affleck amid their split. “She’s made it clear that she won’t forgive him for being such a coldhearted jerk and ending their marriage so harshly,” they disclosed.
Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez’s marriage
Jennifer Lopez filed for divorce from Ben Affleck in August after two years of marriage. Despite this, the former couple has been spotted together several times with their children in recent months. Affleck shares three kids—Violet, 18, Fin, 15, and Samuel, 12—with Garner, while Lopez has twins Max and Emme, 16, with ex-husband Marc Anthony.
In September, Affleck and Lopez were seen enjoying a meal with their kids at the Beverly Hills Hotel. They appeared to be in good spirits but an insider remarked that this reunion highlighted unresolved issues in their relationship. “Jennifer yearns for romance and attention,” the source noted. “Ben, on the other hand, seems to chase the next thrill, regardless of the consequences. His hands-on approach with his estranged wife is walking a risky line.”
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